Encourage Your Women To Tell You More

Posted on 11/09/2009

When she feels bad, ask to hear about it. What is going on? How can you listen? Does she want to sit and just talk? Can you hold her hand while she talks?

Women can feel awful when they don't feel connected or fulfilled in their relationships. So connect, talk with her, listen to her. Although you may want to advice her or fix her or tell her to get over it, restrain yourself.

Don't give any advice unless she ask for it. If you can really listen and hear her feelings, she will feel more connected. When she feels more connected, she will probably feel better.

Warning. Once my husband made big points for listening to me solid for ten minutes, then fell back fifty yards at the peak of my emotional distress. Keep your eyes on her at all times, no matter how hard that is for you.

After you heard about it, learn how to comfort her. Ask her if she wants to be held, touched take her in your arms and just  sit there, holding her, soothing her, not initiating sex even if you get turned on.

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