How to Behave on a Date
Posted on 09/20/2009
The rules of courtesy and respect should followed on a date. Of course, all this seem very burdensome to you because your instinct will be to make an impact, to be remarkable, to show them what a unique and fascinating human being you are.
You will want to tell them all about yourself rather than just be yourself. You must fight this. You will lose nothing being a bit more quiet, pliant, and passive.
Indeed, if you allow them to get a word in edgewise your date will be far more impressed by you and have a far better time than if you go through your entire repertoire of funny stories.
Every day involves an active and passive dimension. You must actively seek to entertain your date, without overwhelming them, Give them time and space to express their own personalities.
Likewise, you should never be afraid to insist that your date treat you with respect and courtesy. It is your right , and actually your duty, to let them know if they are on the wrong track and headed for a lonely life.
Can you imagine how sad it would be if a wonderful relationship were nipped in the bud, only because you never spoke to your date about what they were doing wrong?
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