How to Have an Affair
Posted on 10/23/2009
Want to know how to have an affair? Here are some tips to follow when you are having an affair so that you don't get busted, because the one thing that you don't want to do when you are having an affair is to get caught.
Disclaimer: We do not endorse or encourage cheating on your spouse
Most people don't go into marriage or a serious relationship with the intentions of having an affair, but sometimes things change and leave you feeling the need to fill a missing element in your life with the companionship of a person other than your spouse. The one thing that you don't want to do when you are having an affair is to get caught. Here are some tips to follow when you are having an affair so that you don't get busted.
You shouldn't give the person you are having an affair with your home address, home phone number, or information on the work place or hang outs of your spouse. If things turn ugly then you don't want to make it easy for them to inform your spouse of the affair.
You should also pay cash for hotel rooms or gifts. You won't want to use credit cards for these purchases; the credit card bill can be a red flag for your spouse.
You will want to add the person you are having an affair with to your contacts list on your cell phone. Add them as a person of the same gender. This way if your spouse looks through your contacts it won't catch their attention.
You should have a designated time that the person you are seeing will call you at. This will allow you to take the phone call when your spouse isn't around and avoid an awkward confrontation and the need for you to lie about the phone call.
When you are having an affair you want to be careful that you don't put yourself in the position of lying a lot. The less that you lie, the less the chances will be that your spouse will become suspicious. If your spouse feels that you are hiding something then there is a good chance that they will dig deep and catch you. Try to time your meetings during a time when your spouse already thinks that they know where you are. If they feel that they already know your daily plans then they won't ask questions about where you have been.