How to Recognize the Cool Guys

Posted on 09/19/2009

Take some time alone to consider how to attract relatively stress free relationships with guys who treat you well. What makes a guy "cool?" What do cool guys looks like? How do they act? How do they treat a girl?

Our dating specialist says, " A great boyfriend doesn't pee on your parade..... He will get out of the car and pick you a few flowers." or "It is a little things that counts like a phone call when you least expect it. Once you can recognize what good guy behavior looks like in other relationships, you will be on you find that cool guy, follow the cool guy selector.

Cool Guy Selector
How do you know if he is a cool guy? The traits cool guys demonstrate are:

1. Attentiveness
2. Affection
3. Devotion
4. Dependability
5. Compassion
6. Generosity
7. Loyalty
8. Trust
9. Honesty
10. Stability
11. Fidelity

In addition to these basics, cool guys will want to care for you when you are sick, compliment you when you look good or do something well, enjoy your friends and family, be happy when something makes you happy, remember special occasions, enjoy spending quit nights together, but give you your space to be alone, use the pronouns we, us, and ours, and generally treat you with respect.

Sometimes cool guys are so cool that girls tend to take them for granted. That is a big mistake, because if you don't crush on a cool guy, a wiser girl will. No girl would possibly have time to consider seeking these traits in a guy if she is constantly out and about, especially with losers. This is why quiet time alone is so important.

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