Love Is a Gift
Posted on 11/23/2009
Love is most precious gift we can give one another, especially when it is expressed through physical, sexual intimacy. Imagine yourself in bed with your loved one, who is smiling, relaxed reaching toward you. You hold your lover closer. You want to feel a part of this person, to merge.
But now there is not just the physical dimension, there is the spiritual mental dimension as well. Touching has moved beyond simple physical touch. Now you are touching each other's heart and mind. This is love, the most precious gist we can give each other.
You are one as a men and a women. You share a common ground. You share the electric current of caring and love. You share daily life. You share problems and successes, failures and accomplishments, transitions from one stage of life to another. You are a team.
In a sense it is artificial to say sex and love should be merged. In reality they should be accepted for what they are variations on the theme of oneness. The electricity of life. We ordinary separate elements of life into categories, as if real life were actually divided and chopped into pieces. The reality is that one thing flows into another, love flows into sex and two can be a larger one.
Our life with our loved one is a long journey. Like any road it changes as we travel. It has ups and downs, hard parts and easy parts, sometimes beautiful and sometimes unattractive, at times boring and at times exciting. Through it all we treat our best beloved with love and respect, over and over letting things go, and in so doing we gain dignity for ourselves.
There is no distance between the two of you for the moment, and the energy of your love for each other carries you outward, making all life seem touched with magic.
"I love you, " you say. It is a simple statement and the two of you smile and kiss. You see each other, accepting, respecting, honoring. You feel as if you belong and feel the very essence of what it means to be alive. You merge sexually. Now a heart to heart connection exists. Emotionally and bodily you are one in joy and wonder.
You can relax and savor the nourishment inherent in the intimacy. You need not race or rush, but rather feel at home in your lover's embrace. You can be filled up where once you felt empty. You can be healed where once you were wounded. You can feel connected where once you felt lonely.
It is like dance between equal partners. Both lead and neither leads. You feel your way toward mutual satisfaction, knowing that one's satisfaction is the other's satisfaction.
Instead of racing to orgasm, you savor the moment. You slow down. You open your senses. You allow the warmthin your hearts to glow more brightly. You breath and relax. You allow yourselves to have a moment in peace in the midst of your lives. You find it is easier than it seemed. You breathe again and relax even more deeply. You feel as if your chest has opened and you can breather through your heart. And as you go through your heart you also go beyond it, to fusion.
If you can carry this beyond the sexual experience, you can see how your combined lives lead to a greater good and serve a higher purpose. You can live your daily life as an expression of a larger, deeper self, as the life force flowing through you.
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