Posture And Position Are Important

Posted on 10/17/2009

You may or may be a terrific man, but just improving your posture gives out a number of attractive nonverbal messages to your woman and to the world. If you stand up straight and hold your head up, you look stronger more powerful, and worthy of admiration and respect .

Sagging posture and a protruding stomach give the appearance of weakness and laziness, and those traits are anything but seductive. No one expects you to stand at attention all the time but remember, if you want to appear more attractive, this is an important part of doing so.

Position is also important. Physical closeness is another way of saying, "I like you, I want to be near you, you are so special to me." It is more seductive to position yourself close to her than it is to position yourself farther away.Most women feel good about this, particularly if you combine it with other cues like a warm smile.

You should avoid getting too close, however, if she doesn't seem ready for it. If you are new to each other, if you have been fighting, or if you have some other reason to believe she won' feel good about you being too near, then avoid getting close until you are closer emotionally. Remember that her brain is her receptive sex organ. You must be accepted emotionally before you are likely to be fully accepted physically.

A good way to determine whether she is ready for you to be closer is to see if she smiles at you or touches you casually, even on the arm or shoulder. These are signals that a women is ready for you to be nearer.

If you are not certain, you can try getting closer and see her reaction. When you get closes, does her smile? Us her expression welcoming? Does she seem comfortable or does she move away? If she doesn't seem comfortable, the best thing to do is move away. Getting closer than she wants you to get can create a number of negative reactions in women, from discomfort to downright alarm, anxiety, and rejection.

Being able to read her nonverbal signals is another important reason for you to get in touch with your own feelings. Once you are more sensitive to yourself and your own inner workings, you will be better able to read her.

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