Reach Out And Touch Someone

Posted on 10/25/2009

How you position yourself in relation to the person you are talking to can have an effect on the impression you give. When talking with someone, it is important to face him or her.

If you are siting beside someone, make sure you turn to look at the person. Don't be afraid to get a little closer. Don't get so close that you are breathing down the person's neck, but don't leave too much distance either.

Once you feel comfortable with the distance between yourself and the other person, look for an opportunity to touch him or her. One way to do this is to listen carefully to what the person is saying.

When something is said that you agree with, touch his or her arm lightly and say, "I know what you mean," or "I feel the same way." A gentle touch like this is a wonderful way to make a connection and let someone know that you really like being with him or her.

As you begin your conversation, pay attention to how much you are talking. If you feel the conversation is lopsided and you are doing most of the talking, stop! While your input is important, make sure you do your share of listening as well.

Another way to indicate you really like someone is to show the person a particular courtesy or kindness. Going out of your way for someone you find attractive is a sure way to make a good impression. You can open a door, pull up a chair, or offer to get something from the bar or buffet a table. Help someone on or off with his or her coat, offer to carry something for the person, or offer to walk a woman to her car.

In short, make someone's life a little easier. The person will remember your kindness, and most importantly, he or she will remember you!

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