When you fall in love, you actually fall in love with three things. You fall in love with the other person, the way he looks and acts and smells and talks all the hidings about him that seem wonderful.
Practice caring about the object of your love. It is not that difficult once you know how. Think about who or what you love your woman or your kids or your football team or your car or your favorite fishing hole. The close your eyes and feel good about her, them, or it.