When To Make Love

Posted on 01/02/2010

Always making love as a night cap just before bedtime is a common practice but not an especially sexy one because the expectation is that you will fall asleep afterward .

And what often happens is that at bedtime both of you are too tired to get involved in serious lovemaking or the man may not be able to control himself long enough to satisfy the woman.

Making love in the morning seems natural to many men merely because they have an erection on arising. Sometimes the stimulation for this is a full bladder, sometimes a dream.

Capitalizing on this fortuitous occurrence makes more sense to men than women, but there is no denying that many women like to start off the day by making love.

Men are often hurt when they are refused at such times, not realizing that their mates are concerned with getting the kids ready for school, starting their work day, and getting into another gear altogether.

You cannot plan when to have sex with any reasonable guarantee of success. The worst is to set up a time and then not be in the mood and have your mate complain “But you promised.” Again, try to find times and places in your life where you can follow your instincts.

If your are in the mood, whisper to your partner and be affectionate. You can steal a few torrid minutes in the middle of the day every so often. It does wonders for a relationship, giving you a little secret to share.

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