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I have been completely dissatisfied with eHarmony and would not

I have been completely dissatisfied with eHarmony and would not recommend it to anyone. I paid for 3 months of NOTHING. The matches did not at all take into account my #1 priority, I got the worst matches and only 1 or 2 would I even consider. I emailed the company and the "run around" I got was pathetic. I should upload photos, which I did, and I should fill out the personality profile, which I did. I had friends review my site to offer advice and still the matches were pathetic. I am going to an alternate site and suggest you do the same!!

Many "dead" profiles.

I've been on eharmony for almost a year now. I am 5 months into a paid subscription. I have had 1,035 Matches...

Of that 1035, 984 have been closed due to either being too far away (eharmony's distance map does not take things like lakes into consideration so I get matches in Eastern Ontario even though it would be a 3-4 hour drive) or because I simply was not attracted to them; 42 I have requested Photo's; 11 I have attempted to open communication with.

Here are the issues with those 53 I have attempted some semblance of contact with. (1) Eharmony does not tell you if a person is a subscribed member or not, which means you may just be wasting your time anyhow. (Even if they have one of their "free communication weekends" that doesn't help because they only advertise the free weekend on their home page. You do not receive an email or notification if you use the App.) (2) EHarmony's "last active" only goes back a couple weeks, so if their profile has been dead for 6 months, you'll never know.

They need to add a more specific last active feature, and whether or not a person is a subscribed user. Or at least don't send non payed users as matches to those that pay. I would rather have 5 matches a week from active payed users, than 5 matches a day from photo-less abandoned profiles.

eharmony first date

My first date on eharmony....turned out to be a conceited, narcissictic, maniac. I am even believing he is a sociopath. He scared me because he was nice to talk to but still had that no feeling in his speech or look and approach. Like he had no emotions about anything. His wife had just passed away 2 mos . prior I found out. I feel pity for that poor woman when she was alive. He thinks it is aok to start dating one month after her death. And he had already been on several dates before me. I am sure they ran as well!!! Watch out for sickos. They are there. And I am sorry that I had my first date with a sociopath. I will never use eharmony again. Lucky for me the red flags fly like crazy now.

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Love It

Just like dating in the real world, not everyone you meet or get matched up with on a dating website will appeal to you. I think most people read the statistics (which I am sure are not accurate) and immediately assume that the second the sign up for eHarmony (or any dating website) they will find the love of their life. You still need to go through the motions and filter out these people to your liking. eHarmony HELPS the process by eliminating the obvious ones... then it is your job to go through the rest... and most will not be to your liking. Just because you pay for their service doesn't mean you are automatically going to have a bride or groom served to you without you doing any leg work. I think that is one thing that people have to keep in mind.

Anyway here is my story with eHarmony. My sister kept raving about how much fun she was having on eHarmony and kept trying to talk me into joining... I would say no every time. Finally, (after a few to many cocktails) she ended up talking me into joining, doing the 3 month membership. I had absolutely no intention of meeting anyone of the website (I have always worried about people meeting after talking online, mainly thinking about the worst that could happen, like he is a serial killer or something like that), but I spent the money so I communicated with a few men and most were interesting and had a lot of potential. I got PLENTY of matches and PLENTY of people trying to contact me, I would say at one time I was in communications with 20 people. I loved the set up, the way they have the communication set up. It really allowed you to get to know if you wanted to move to open communications or not. Anyway, I was on for about a month and started to communicate with a guy that just clicked with me, completely. We emailed for a while, then spoke on the phone, met and now we are a happy couple. We have only been together for a year, but we still have the spark like we just met. I feel like he may be the man that I spend the rest of my life with. Don't get me wrong, I know it is a possibility that we may not work out... and if we don't, I am not going to blame eHarmony... its just life!

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Nothing's changed

I subscribed to e-Harmony over five years ago. Nothing has changed. I had three hundred "matches" and I did not meet one person. At least, when I used Match.com, I met some people. They wre not particularly stellar candidates but at least I met some. After five years of on-line dating, I quit four years ago. I simply do not have the energy, interest, or patience to do it again. I find that I no longer "suffer fools gladly." Oh well. Best of luck to anyone who does!

Nothing's changed

e harmony free communication weekend

starting tomorrow is free weekend to communicate with any one on e harmony. Just want to know can you see thier pictures and can youemail them also? I'm with e harmony but haven't paid for membership? So if any one knows what exactly free communication means please let me know. Because i been getting messages from man that live like 2 hours away and i just want to know? Thank you

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Houses are not very cheap and not every person is able to buy it. However, mortgage loans was created to help people in such hard situations.

Not what you think

I joined in July and recieved an unusally high volume of responses--so many that I called to cancel. They stayed with me on the phone for an hour and encouraged me to send a set of questions to the one guy who looked OK. He SEEMED to want to the same things I did--froze his matches after two weeks--said we belonged together, liked kids.....after five months he broke up with me b/c he could not fall in love with me. This inability to love should have come up somewhere on his profile. He was also a little crazy. He broke my heart and moved right on. It should have been a good match but it was not. I do get some interesting matches but the majority are not people I would actually want to meet. I think their formulas are seriously flawed.

I joined eharmony hoping to meet honest menwho actually wanted a

I joined eharmony hoping to meet honest menwho actually wanted a relationship. I paid for 6 months upfront. I received several matches a day for a while. I would say in the 6 months that I was a member I received about 70-80 matches,most were not paying members so even if you sent them communication, you would never hear back from them. In the 6 months I met 1 guy in person. He was basically looking for sex and didn't try to disguise it. We went out 1 time only. My experience was very disappointing, not to mention how expensive it was. You pay too much and receive low quality matches.

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It is perfect that we can get the loan and that opens up completely new opportunities.

Eharmony: Waste of Money

I wish I had read these reviews before signing up with EH. Eharmony is a waste of time and money.

Not impressed...

If you are totally honest about yourself, this is a big waste of time! Most folks submit what they want others to believe about them. Not a judgment call...just realistic!

Who knows?

I probably shouldn't write a review just yet. But I'm going too anyways. I've been on eH for a week, and I have 23 matches so far, only two have talked to me and they seem very desperate and unattractive. (trust me I'm not the sexiest woman in the world but I am attractive) So I talked to them anyway because I'm not rude, so far no connection after talking to them for about 2 days. And one of the guys want to go on a first date, honestly too early. So far I and convinced 50% of who you meet if you meet them, are desperate. But maybe there will be luck in this 6 month membership. Luckly I have "three months free"

No good for women over fifty

I have been on Eharmony a few times over the past few years and have met just a few guys. One I dated for a year, one for two weeks, and one for three months. Over all, I would not recommend this site for a woman over the age of fifty because there are (according to reports I've heard) about twice as many women as men. Reason being, women feel "safe" at Eharmony and are more likely to want committed relationships. So the men get their pick of an abundance of women and quite often go for the younger ones. I am a fairly attractive woman (am told so in real life) and have been ignored by men my own age who I am compatible with and are in my geographical area. Eharmony tried to match me up with a man almost the age of my father (before I had a chance to change my age settings). Now I ask you, why would I want to date someone in my parent's generation? I am looking for a companion, not to be a nursemaid. They are all about trying to satisfy their pool of older men. I will not be subscribing again. I think I have better luck at Match..com. or in real world situations where you don't have to lead out with your age on your forehead.