All my friends who’ve used this service have become a victim of their auto renew feature AFTER they have cancelled. Then, when you contact them for a refund, they refuse to give you one, claiming it was somehow clearly part of the agreement when you signed up that you’d get auto renewed. That’s absurd. It’s just a shameful, unethical money making scheme.

Do not use this service. It’s a waste of time, money, and they will try to eat your money…

I joined sometime in 2008 or early 2009, there was this one guy that I sent a request to because the other guys that I was matched with either did not meet the requirements that I specifically asked for or they just did not respond to my request..then there was those who invited me to chat but was just not my type..

This one guy I met in the beginning seemed very sincere and honest about his life and himself. The relationship reached a point where we both took turns visiting each other, at least once per month we would see each other. I live in the Caribbean and he lives in L.A. He works in Administration for a Seven Day Adventise Hospital.

The first time I visited him in his country, a woman called me within the first week to tell me that she is the other woman in his life, she even related to me the exact days I arrive in L.A. and my intended time of departure. What led her to call me was the mere fact that I abruptly changed my returned ticket to allow me to stay in L.A for 30 days instead of 5 days. She told me that she got my number of his phone and saw him mere days before I got there. This women is married with two kids.

When I confronted him he told me that she use to work at the same hospital and that she in fact was using him for sex.( There is a lot more to this women so I forgive him)

Then in November 2009, we exchanged promise rings and agreed to get engaged in 2010. But then another woman contacted me via facebook after she read what I had written on my wall on this facebook application. She told me that she dated him for 3 yrs on and off and that he invited her to two basketball games at the StapleCenter..eventually this woman and I exchanged emails and phonecalls to understand exactly what was going on..What this man did was, two days before meeting up with me in Miami in November 2009, he invited her to the games and then she spent the night at his apartment for all the neighbours to see. Then after he spent 5 days in Miami with me (where we exchanged rings) he again two days later took her to a basketball game and then returned with her to his apartment for all around to see..She waited for him on one of those evening at a little italian resturant at the corner from where he lives, and greeted her with a kiss on the lips where just in October he and I had dined..the owner of the italian resturant knows very well that we’re a couple.

Oh it gets better!!! There was another woman he had met though eharmony, he did to this woman what he did to me..he started with me while or during that relationship…

It appears as though that this man is a serial womanizer/ internet predator who prays on women that are seeking a man for marriage..he told us exactly what we wanted to hear and played the game very well.. I am still in shock and had many sleepless night over the whole mess, the relationship lasted approximately 11 months.

To make matters worst we met each other families..He also suffers from depression, where in medical terms will be refered to as a “cutter”..Yes, he cuts himself on either arm. Plus there are some self inflicted wounds on his legs. He had no idea that I went through his email account where I found all this infromation. I gave him suppose for his depression and I did not judge him at all for this but instead he sent me head on into a mental breakdown!!

He also owns a surfboard company with a business partner that he told me was a man but later I saw pictures of this man, who in fact was a women that he had dated.

This man lied to me so much, that I thank God to be alive today because now I don’t know who the hell he is. I am out of the relationship and I will never again use the internet as a means of seeking a potential husband.

So I will be writing to eharmony on this mess of a situation…

The major disappointment for me was how many extremely liberal women were on the site. I was led to believe many of the women were Christians, and boy was that a canard.